Law Of Attraction Relationships

Explaining the Law of Attraction for Relationships

The law of attraction for relationships can be a rather tricky concept to fully grasp, though millions of people are trying. Unfortunately many of these people do not understand this concept, aside from a generalized and false notion that they can sit around and make all their dreams come true. If that were the case, then surely many more people would be filthy rich and in loving relationships.

This article is designed to give the reader a basic understanding of using the law of attraction for relationships specifically, although the techniques can be applied to other areas of your life.

What Is the Law of Attraction?

The law of attraction, for relationships or other things, is the belief and practice that you can and do attract things to you by expecting them. This may sound odd and complicated, but essentially it is the power of words and positive thinking. If, for example you constantly complain that you are always unlucky and that nothing ever goes your way, then you will ultimately attract more negative things into your life. It’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy; one that many people have discovered can be used to their benefit.

How to Apply it to Relationships

While it is a simple and effective technique, finding lasting love through the law of attraction is not as easy as wishing it so. You will need to be active in this endeavor through mental exercises, visualizations, and even a little one on one roleplay. Essentially, this means that you will need to think and act as though this new wonderful relationship is not only an inevitability, but act as if it is already happening.


Before you can begin using the law of attraction to enhance your love life, you need to decide for yourself exactly what it is that you want. What does the perfect relationship mean for you? While you may be tempted to focus on the attractive coworker in the next cubicle, or the one that got away, it is wiser to focus and visualize a person with certain aspects that you desire: a caring heart, a good sense of humor, intelligence, nurturing tendencies, etc. This way, you will be getting the right match for yourself to allow you to be truly happy. To focus on one person in particular is like trying to force a piece of straw through a plate glass window.

Trust Your Instincts

Sometimes love will sneak up on you like a cat in a dark hallway. While you initially may not think that your friend or the new tenant next door is the love of your life, it may be that they are. Trust your instincts and listen to gut responses. If you have a date with someone that is very far from your normal “type,” and certainly not the type of person your friends can see you with, you need to stop worrying about those things and listen to your internal thoughts and first reactions. Remember: opportunity knocks, but it won’t bang on the door for you.

Get Rid of the Bad

As stated earlier, if you are full of negative thoughts and emotions, you are going to attract more negativity. That being said, getting rid of negative aspects of your life essentially frees up some room for good things to come your way. If you have a friend with a drinking problem that brings a great deal of drama into your life, you would be wise to avoid them. The drama will leave right out the door as well.

The same is true if you have an ex that is still hanging around and causing issues. You will not be able to welcome in a new healthy relationship opportunity unless you can get rid of the baggage that comes along with your ex. Start anew. Clean the slate off. Focus on good things coming to you.